Tasks, Rules & Ideas for 24/7 TPE (according to Doll)

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8/16/20269 min read

- Doll homework, Due 8-29Ppromt

Sirs Prompt:

- Think about what she wants to happen in a tpe 24/7 relationship.

- Imagine the daily tasks, long term changes, how others might be involved, what sort of trips, travel and events

Tasks, Rules & Ideas for 24/7 TPE (according to Doll)

🎀Daily Check-Ins & Accountability🎀

Morning Check-In

  • Doll checks in with Sir every morning.

  • Doll must confess what time she actually went to bed and approximately what time she finally fell asleep.

  • Review the day’s schedule and any tasks Sir has assigned.

  • Doll reports anything important that Sir needs to know about for the day.

  • Repeat daily mantra if one has been assigned.

Evening Check-In

  • Before bedtime Doll sends Sir a screenshot of her calendar that includes:

    • Schedule for the day

    • Tasks completed

    • Meals

    • Exercise/fitness

    • 3 positive highlights from the day

    • Overall mood

    • Any important notes

    • Anything Doll struggled with

    • Any rule she broke or anything she needs to confess

  • Doll also sends a screenshot of the next day’s schedule so Sir can make any necessary changes by the morning.

Ideas

  • Daily question from Sir that Doll has to answer.

  • Sir gives Doll a daily mantra.

  • One thing Doll is proud of herself for each day.

  • One thing Doll wants to improve tomorrow.

  • Weekly check-in with Sir about how the TPE is going.

  • Monthly review of rules, tasks, goals and things Doll wants to add.

🎀Bedtime Routine🎀

Rules

  • Doll has a set bedtime that she is expected to adhere to.

  • Doll must complete her bedtime tasks before going to bed.

  • Doll must tell Sir if she stayed up past her assigned bedtime.

  • Doll must confess when she actually fell asleep during the morning check-in.

Bedtime Tasks

  • Shower/bath

  • Skincare

  • Brush teeth

  • Prepare clothes for the next day

  • Check tomorrow’s schedule

  • Complete any assigned journaling/homework

  • Repeat bedtime mantra

  • Complete evening check-in

  • Send screenshot of tomorrow’s schedule

  • Goodnight protocol with Sir

Ideas

  • Sir chooses Doll’s bedtime routine order.

  • Occasionally Sir assigns an extra task before bed.

  • A specific goodnight message that Doll always sends.

  • Hypno recording for sleep, relaxation or reinforcing routines.

🎀Tracking & Where Abouts🎀

Rules

  • Phone tracking or another agreed-upon tracking device.

  • Doll checks in whenever she leaves somewhere.

  • Doll checks in when she arrives somewhere.

  • Doll follows her assigned schedule unless Sir gives permission to change it.

  • Doll must ask permission to go somewhere that isn’t already on her schedule.

  • Sir keeps in mind that Doll sometimes likes to be spontaneous and can decide when she gets to have a little spontaneity.

  • Certain apps or social media can have time limits decided by sir

  • Assigned phone-free periods.

🎀Journaling & Homework🎀

Tasks

  • Complete journaling prompts assigned by Sir.

  • Complete homework assignments.

  • Write about feelings, experiences and things Doll is struggling with.

  • Write about things Doll is proud of.

  • Keep track of personal goals and progress.

  • Repeat assigned mantras.

Ideas

Possible daily prompts:

  • What made Doll feel good today?

  • What made Doll feel beautiful today?

  • What did Doll accomplish?

  • What did Doll struggle with?

  • Did Doll make Sir proud today?

  • What does Doll want to improve?

  • What is Doll looking forward to?

  • What is something Doll wants Sir to know but hasn’t said?

🎀Rules of Conduct & Protocol🎀

Rules

  • Doll is to wear collar or symbol of ownership

  • Doll is to remain standing or kneeling until Sir gives Doll permission to sit when the protocol is active.

  • Doll asks permission when something requires permission rather than assuming she can do it.

  • Doll is always honest with Sir, especially when she breaks a rule.

  • Doll does not hide mistakes or try to cover them up.

  • Doll communicates when something is becoming too difficult or when circumstances require a change.

  • Sir has the final say within the agreed-upon boundaries of the dynamic.

🎀Appearance🎀

When Together

  • Sir tells Doll exactly what outfit he wants her to wear.

  • Sir can choose Doll’s shoes.

  • Sir can decide if Doll wears her hair up or down.

  • Sir can choose hair accessories.

  • Sir can choose jewelry or other accessories.

  • Sir can choose colors or specific pieces he wants Doll to wear.

  • Sir compliments Doll for wearing what he chose for her.

When Apart

  • Sir can give Doll guidelines for what she wears.

    • This could be a specific color, style, dress, skirt, underwear, etc.

  • Doll sends Sir a picture to verify when requested.

  • Clothes purchased by Doll must be approved by Sir if they fall under the agreed clothing rules.

Ideas

  • Sir gets to choose Doll’s outfit for dates.

  • Sir chooses Doll’s outfit for special occasions.

  • Create a “Sir’s Choice” section of Doll’s closet.

  • Sir occasionally picks an outfit Doll wouldn’t normally choose herself.

  • Specific dress codes for different days.

  • Sexy underwear days.

  • Hair and makeup choices left entirely to Sir.

🎀Food & Meals🎀

Rules

  • Doll follows an agreed healthy diet and meal plan.

  • Sir decides what doll can eat and when.

  • Doll prepares homemade meals.

  • Doll reports/logs when she slips up.

  • Sir decides when Doll gets a special treat.

  • When eating at restaurants, Sir orders Doll’s meal.

    • Doll can voice an opinion or preference, but the final choice is Sir’s.

  • Doll must have permission to drink alcohol.

    • Alcohol limits can vary based on the situation, day or type of drink.

Tasks

  • Weekly meal planning.

  • Grocery list based on the approved meal plan.

  • Grocery shopping.

  • Meal preparation.

  • Meal logging.

  • Kitchen cleanup.

  • Photograph meals for accountability

  • Special dessert/treat earned for completing goals.

🎀Fitness & Exercise🎀

Tasks

  • Use a fitness app to share routines and schedule.

  • Follow assigned workout schedule.

  • Log workouts.

  • Share progress with Sir.

  • For outdoor activities, send screenshot of route

    • Distance

    • Pace

    • Time

  • Send one picture of something beautiful Doll saw while out.

Ideas

  • Daily step goal.

  • Weekly fitness goal.

  • Monthly challenge.

  • Sir chooses an outdoor activity.

  • Walking while listening to an assigned playlist.

  • Progress photos

🎀Household & Service Tasks🎀

Cleaning

Tasks

  • Follow a cleaning schedule.

  • Complete assigned cleaning tasks.

  • Send a picture to show completion when requested.

  • Keep Doll’s personal space clean.

  • Complete deeper cleaning tasks when assigned.

Ideas

  • Specific cleaning days.

  • Surprise cleaning assignments.

  • Sir chooses which room Doll cleans.

  • Wear a maid outfit when doing designated service tasks.

  • Hypno to help Doll associate cleaning with enjoyment and satisfaction.

Errands

  • Doll has an approved grocery list.

  • Doll completes grocery shopping according to the list.

  • Doll reports when errands are completed.

  • Doll asks before adding unnecessary purchases.

  • Sir can assign additional errands.

🎀Money & Budget🎀

Rules

  • Doll maintains her own finances.

  • Doll is responsible for maintaining her bills and normal financial obligations.

  • Bigger purchases require permission.

  • Doll has a capped shopping limit for discretionary purchases.

  • No credit-card purchases.

  • Doll sends screenshots when needed for accountability.

Ideas

  • Monthly spending allowance for fun purchases.

  • Sir approves purchases over a certain amount or anything outside of food, bills and gas.

  • Weekly spending check-in.

  • Savings goals.

  • Sir can assign a savings challenge.

  • Track progress toward larger goals.

🎀Sexual Control & Denial🎀

Rules

  • Doll does not touch herself without permission when this rule is active.

  • Doll asks permission when she wants to masturbate.

  • When permission is given, Sir can direct how Doll is allowed to masturbate.

  • Sir can decide whether Doll is allowed to orgasm, edge, or stop.

  • Doll must confess if she breaks the touching rule or orgasms without permission.

  • Doll is to be punished for breaking the rules.

  • Sir decides when Doll is allowed sexual release.

  • When together doll will often be kept in bondage or have restricted activity

  • Possibly a chastity belt/device.

  • Eventually exploring genital piercings that can be locked as Chasity option.

🎀Bathroom / Bladder Control🎀

Ideas

  • Permission-based bathroom protocol.

  • Doll asks Sir before using the bathroom when the protocol is active.

  • Sir can decide when the protocol is active versus suspended.

  • Hypno/conditioning focused on making the feeling of having a full bladder feel psychologically interesting or enjoyable.

  • There should always be an automatic exception for actual physical need, pain, illness or an emergency.

🎀Sir’s Control Over Doll’s Schedule🎀

Ideas

  • Sir can review Doll’s calendar.

  • Sir can add tasks.

  • Sir can move tasks around.

  • Sir can decide which things are priorities.

  • Sir can surprise Doll with an assignment.

  • Sir can designate certain times as “Doll time,” where Doll focuses completely on herself, the household or a task Sir has given her.

  • Sir can give Doll free time as a reward.

  • Sir can occasionally give Doll an intentionally spontaneous day.

🎀Personal Growth🎀

Long-Term Changes Doll Wants

  • Becoming more confident.

  • Feeling sexy and beautiful.

  • Feeling comfortable in her body.

  • Pursuing personal interests.

  • Becoming more disciplined.

  • Becoming more organized.

  • Getting better at communicating what she wants and needs.

  • Working toward personal goals instead of constantly putting them off.

  • Feeling proud of the things she accomplishes.

🎀Body & Appearance Goals🎀

Long-Term Goals

  • Work toward Doll’s ideal weight in a healthy and sustainable way.

  • Work toward the goal of eventually getting a breast lift/tummy tuck once ideal weight reached

  • Eventually getting nipple piercings/tattoos after surgery and healing.

  • Build confidence in Doll’s body along the way rather than waiting until she reaches the “perfect” body to feel sexy.

  • Work towards dolls long term goal of building a tiny house “dollhouse”

🎀Other People Involvment🎀

Women

  • Doll really desires an ongoing relationship with a woman either in a triad situation or solo.

  • Doll would ideally like to play with other women together with Sir.

  • Doll would also like the possibility of playing with another woman on her own if Sir has approved it beforehand.

  • Sir would have a say in who Doll plays with and what situations she participates in.

  • Doll wants Sir to remain part of the dynamic even when he isn’t physically there.

  • Doll wants honesty and communication around any interaction with another person.

  • Before anything happens, Doll and Sir would establish what is and isn’t allowed.

  • Afterward, Doll checks in with Sir about how the experience went.

  • Sir approving a play date for Doll and another woman while he isn’t there.

  • Exploring friendships with other women in the kink community, not everything necessarily having to become sexual.

  • Sir being able to decide when Doll gets to explore something versus when she needs to wait.

  • Eventually developing relationships with other people that fit naturally within the boundaries of the TPE.

Men

As of right now, Doll doesn’t have an interest in seeking out other dominant men. Doll is very happy with Sir being her dominant and doesn’t currently feel like she needs another male dominant relationship.

That being said, Doll recognizes that feelings and interests can change over time, and she doesn’t want to say that it could never happen.

If Doll ever becomes interested in exploring something with another dominant man:

Sir would vet him first.

Sir and the other Dom would discuss what activities are and aren’t allowed.

Sir would have final approval over whether Doll participates.

Doll would check in with Sir before and after any interaction.

Any boundaries or restrictions Sir establishes would need to be respected.

Current Boundaries

As of right now, Doll would not want penetration with another man to be permitted. This is something that could potentially change in the future, but it is not something Doll currently wants included in the dynamic.

Doll may eventually be open to providing blow jobs to other men if Sir so desires her to do so.

Doll also open to playing with Doms in a scene at play parties again with the above structure in place.

🎀Travel🎀

Things Doll Wants

  • Weekend getaways.

  • Spontaneous little trips.

  • Romantic weekends.

  • Date nights.

  • Kink weekends.

  • Exploring new cities.

  • Road trips.

  • Staying in hotels or cabins.

  • Trips where Sir plans the itinerary.

  • Trips where Doll doesn’t know exactly what is planned until Sir tells her.

  • Getting dressed in an outfit Sir chose for the trip.

  • Having specific protocols that continue while traveling.

  • Sir deciding where Doll eats or what activities she participates in.

  • Having some trips that are completely planned and structured and others that leave room for spontaneity.

Ideas

  • Sir gives Doll a packing list and chooses some/all of her outfits.

  • Doll isn’t told the destination until they’re on the way.

  • A surprise weekend getaway.

  • Sir plans an entire weekend around something Doll enjoys.

  • A “Sir’s Choice” weekend where Doll has very little idea what they’re doing until the day unfolds.

  • A weekend where Doll has specific tasks or challenges to complete.

  • Taking pictures throughout the trip for Doll’s journal afterward.

Festivals & Events

  • Casual local festivals.

  • Street festivals.

  • Renaissance festivals.

  • Theme Parks.

  • Concerts.

  • Art events.

  • Food festivals.

  • Holiday events.

  • Fairs.

  • Conventions.

  • Comic Cons.

  • Cruises.

  • Hypno cons/ Hypnokink events.

  • Kink conventions.

  • Play parties.

  • Educational workshops.

  • Burlesque shows.

  • BDSM events.

Adventures Doll Wants

  • New cities.

  • Mountain towns.

  • New hiking trails.

  • Backpacking and camping.

  • New restaurants.

  • New events.

  • Hypno communities.

  • Weekend adventures.

  • Road trips.

  • New hobbies.

🎀Things Doll Wants From Sir🎀

  • Structure.

  • Accountability.

  • Direction.

  • Praise.

  • Compliments.

  • To be noticed when she is doing well.

  • To be corrected when she needs it.

  • To feel wanted.

  • To feel sexy.

  • To feel beautiful.

  • To have someone make all her decisions.

  • To have rules that make Doll feel like she belongs to Sir.

  • To still be able to express her opinions and preferences.

  • To have some room for spontaneity.

  • To feel like the rules are actually part of their relationship rather than just a list.

  • To continually add new rituals, rules and things to explore together.

🎀The Overall Goal🎀

Doll doesn’t want this to just be a list of rules that she has to follow.

Doll wants the rules and tasks to become part of her everyday life.

She wants to wake up knowing what is expected of her, have structure throughout the day, check in with Sir, complete her tasks, take care of herself, take care of her home, work toward her goals, and go to bed knowing she did what she was supposed to do.

The goal is for Doll to feel more confident, more disciplined, more beautiful, more connected and more comfortable being Doll.