What I Keep Finding in Him (Updated as needed!)

There are so many little things I enjoy and think he should eventually know

7/27/20261 min read

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  • The way he hugs me, so much taller than I am, his chin resting lightly on top of my head.I feel small safe and secure.

  • When he wraps his arms around me from behind, one arm draped gently around my neck.

  • His touch, its sensual soothing and calming, Something I didn’t know I needed.

  • When he gropes my breast through my bra.

  • The way he looks up at me when I grind on his leg, his calm demeanor as I get needy and desperate.

  • The quiet confidence in the way he takes my hand and naturally leads, never demanding, simply expecting me to follow.

  • The simple little “pet pets” messages that somehow always make me smile.

  • Hearing him call me “good girl” or “good doll.”

  • Listening to him talk about the things he’s passionate about, watching how animated and engaged he becomes.

  • His calm, steady confidence.

  • He never twitches or fidgets, it’s so calming for me to be around especially when I am twitchy or fidgety.

  • That he keeps talking comfortably even when I grow quiet, never rushing to fill the silence or making it feel awkward.

  • Durning our first scene in the dungeon and he would wrap around me from behind and whisper in my ear “Is my girl doing okay?”

  • He remembers things I say and mentions or asks about it. Ie macrame (plant bondage) or asking how my work board meeting went

  • When I tell him something important or address my needs he says “good doll’ which makes me feel I can and should continue to bring up things in the future.

  • Every time we get together and part for the night he always walks me to my van, gives me a kiss and tells me to text him when I get home. I love being told to text someone hen I get home safe!

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